Selflessness

March 21, 2014

This picture was taken when my cousins decided to take me out for drinks. We ended up enjoying one another’s company and the beautiful view at Dencio’s (a restau and bar overlooking a gorgeous golf course).

I almost felt bad for enjoying myself so much since I know that these amazing people took time out of their insanely busy lives to be with me. If it were once out of the whole week that we spent together then it would be ok … but they’ve done it over and over again. So selfless.
My focus for this trip would be to learn how to be more selfless with my own life. Doing for others always and not having to think twice about what I would get in return. My thought process would be to trust in the natural flow of energy and you will find yourself practicing generosity with no strings attached. This is the purest form of giving. Remember that what you send out will always come back to you. While giving conditionally creates stress, giving unconditionally creates abundance. We give freely because we know that there will always be an unlimited supply.

Being aware of how much we are always supported by the universe is one of the keys to abundance and generosity. Consciously remember the times you have received support from expected and unexpected sources. Remember anyone who has helped you when you have needed it the most and bless every situation that comes into your life for the lessons and gifts it brings you. Remember that all things given and received emanate from generosity. Giving is an act of gratitude. Plant the seeds of generosity through your acts of giving, and you will grow the fruits of abundance for yourself and those around you.

Be well loves …

Happy Me

… HAPPY ME …

Be firm and stand up for what you believe in. Never compromise your own happiness. When will we stop pleasing everyone else and put ourselves first. And I’m not saying, the selfish “please yourself” but the TRUE, I’M BEING HONEST WITH MYSELF … and it’s ok to feel this, happiness. I have fallen into the bottomless pit of self pity and not accepting me as a whole and have gone running to the acceptance of everyone else around me. Therefore, finding myself at the end of my rope.. exhausted from trying.. and sad because my efforts were not praised by those that I have given everything to. Today, I found a part of me that was fed up with myself. Why set myself up for failure? The only expectation that I should strive to fulfill is setting no expectation and being in every moment of my own life and giving that moment all of ME. Today … at this very second .. that’s it! I give ME the chance … NO, THE OPPORTUNITY to be truly happy. Enjoy your Saturday .. and everyday hereafter …..

~LAUGH as much as you breathe and LOVE as long as you live~